When it comes to having friends I have more guy friends then I have gal friends. Whenever I hang out with them or talk about then people suddenly get defensive and start saying “Oh y’all dating” “Oh y’all crushing crushing” “oh y’all friends with benefits or something” “Y’all can’t just be friends”. It’s one thing me and other girls hate hearing.
Don’t get me wrong I have seen a lot of people start dating their guy friends but I have also seen a lot of them not date their guy friends and some see them as brothers.
With me and my two guy friends we play a lot of xbox. Since quarantine happened we play a lot during the week before I go to bed. Now usually we are on xbox party and we talk about the most random things . Sometimes they gross me out or sometimes they just talk about things that I don’t even understand.
Now some people reading this may think “Damn you must like one of them?” I have known them all through highschool and I’m really close to both of them. Well one of them the other he’s more my xbox friend now.
The game we usually play is Gta 5. It’s a fun game and when you wanna get all your anger out it’s a good game for that. I’m just horrible at driving.
So gta has spin the wheel thing and you do it every day.. There are a whole bunch of prizes including a car. Now every week they change the car. I won one car one week, my other guy friend won a car the next week and my other guy friend won a car the week after that.. So we all had three different cars.
So the other week we were playing gta and having a good time. But it was 11:30 and I had to head soon..
For the last 30 minutes we didn’t talk about anything weird we didnt do anything stupid or fun..
You wanna know what we did….
We took turns using eachothers cars……Since we didn’t win each other’s car we wanted to see which one we liked best and to go for a test drive. That night there was no stress no drama nothing it was just us chilling trying each other’s cars and having a really good time. Friends are the best weather there are male or female.
But what I learned is that if I’m having a really bad night and I just wanna play some games the boys will do something to cheer me up.
But I will admit since playing with them I’m way more tired in the morning. But I got nothing better to do since I’m stuck in this house. So for every person who believes that you can’t be friends with a guy… Your wrong.