When starting a blog you do all this research. From what hosting to use to what kind of niches are out there. You will find yourself clicking on hundreds of links gathering all the information just before you start writing and well posting on your blog. 

I was that person. Before Shygirlvibes I would spend my spares in school looking up all the things I needed for a blog and gathering up all the things I could write about and even the rules of blogging. Yes, there are rules I mean everything has rules but there were some good rules to follow and there was one that each website/blogger said. That rule was no matter if you wanted to grow your blog or are just having a fun time quality over quantity is important. Every blog post I read had that same rule. Better to have one really good blog post a week than to have three crappy blog posts a week. 

Even now after having this blog for I think almost two years I still follow that rule and that’s why sometimes I don’t post for a week because I rather write a really good or funny blog post than a crappy one that I may have talked about already or is a subject that doesn’t really need to be written at least for my blog. 

Now I still believe quality over quantity is a very important thing besides blog posts. I have talked about how nowadays the mindset is to chase your dreams and burn yourself out and how horrible that advice is, because yes chasing your dreams is great but give yourself a damn break. 

But back to what I was saying because I am truly getting off track to the whole point of what I want to say. 

Nowadays people are still trying to grow their social media. Instagram, Tik, Tok and maybe even youtube and well I am one of those people well with Instagram and Tik Tok and everyday people are giving advice and telling people what they should do and I remember watching this one video and a girl said you guys have to post 16- 20 videos a day. Not 16-20 seconds no she meant whole videos… PARDON. 

Even in Hollywood nowadays it seems that they just want to put all these tv and movies out. Some are really good and some are well you have to question why does anyone like this. Everyone no matter what line of work. They just want things out there which they have every right to since they would work their butt off to get where they are but it’s a question of should I make 3 really good things or ten horrible things and maybe one will be good. 

Everything is growing and changing and well getting different. 

Everything is about money and everything is about things getting bigger and better and more out there if that even makes sense. But the question that stands is when does quality or quantity come back into the picture? People want to normalize fast work instead of slow work which can be so much better and I just always think about that one Rule when it comes to blogging.

Will it change one day? Probably not. It will most likely get worse. As dark or sad as that sounds.

That’s the rant for this week and the advice or anything I can say. If you want your work out to the world actually work hard for whatever it is and not push more stuff than you really need to and burn yourself out.